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The 23rd Psalm for Caregivers – Guest Post by Dr. Sharon V. King

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Dr. Sharon V. King is the author of Aging Gracefully with the 23rd Psalm, a reflective study on the beloved Psalm especially for 50+ ladies. When I invited Sharon to share her thoughts with my readers, she asked if I had a special topic in mind. I said anything that fit in with my blog them of caregiving, faith, and family would be fine. I hope the thoughts she shared will be a meaningful to you as they were to me.

 First, I want to thank Linda for the opportunity to do a guest post on her blog. Caregiving is a reality for many women in their second half-century (the way I like to think about being 50 or over). My new book, Aging Gracefully with the 23rd Psalm, is a devotional offering from one 50+ lady to others of the so-called Baby Boom generation. I say so-called because Baby Boomers’ kids now have babies, so there’s yet another Baby Boom generation. Perhaps now we’ll have to refer to ourselves as “Grandbaby Boomers!”

In my book, I try to connect themes of aging to the verses of one of the best-loved of all psalms. What makes Psalm23 so universally loved is its relevance to a variety of life stages, situations, and circumstances. Caregivers certainly can find a wealth of inspiration and guidance from God’s word in Psalm 23. Although caregiving isn’t the focus of my book, I’d like to explore how some of the verses of Psalm 23 apply to caregiving.

“The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.” (Psalm 23:1).The very first verse of Psalm 23 just about says it all for caregivers. “I shall not want.” Want for what? For all the mercies caregivers need: grace to live one day at time, patience with dementia-related behaviors in an aging parent, someone to help with the housekeeping. Our Good Shepherd can provide all these needs, maybe not when or how we want them, but we can trust that He knows how to provide for us.

“He restoreth my soul” (Psalm 23:3). If anyone has a soul that needs to be restored, it’s a caregiver. Burdens such as anxiety about the future; weary, sleep-interrupted nights; squeezed finances; or lack of support from other family members can make caregivers feel like their spiritual vitality has drained completely away. Sometimes not even physical rest helps. When your soul is weary, you need divine restoration—the kind only God can provide.

“Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me” (Psalm 23:4). Comfort is a valuable commodity for caregivers. They take comfort in even the smallest offerings of support. If you have ever reached out to a caregiver with a phone call or a “thinking of you” card, you may have experienced just how thrilled the caregiver was just to know someone thought about them. Even though nothing may change in their current situation, caregivers can cling to that phone call or card as a source of tremendous comfort. You can be God’s “angel in disguise” to a caregiver, simply by stretching out your rod of comfort in the form of a friendly voice or a thoughtful greeting card.

“Thou anointest my head with oil” (Psalm 23:5). Does God have a special anointing for caregivers? I believe the words to an old hymn by Annie Johnson Flint answer that question:  “He giveth more grace as our burdens grow greater. He sendeth more strength as our labors increase. To added afflictions, He addeth his mercy. To multiplied trials, He multiples peace.”

Finally, “Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil” (Psalm 23:4). Perhaps the greatest dread for many caregivers is the knowledge that their ailing loved one may be approaching death or has already died. I recall years back when my mother was dying of cancer. The doctor phoned my father and told him we should all come to the hospital as soon as possible—to say good-bye. Although that night is an emotional blur in my mind, the one thing I recall most was the peaceful look in my mother’s eyes as her life came to a slow end. She clearly feared no evil. She knew to whom she belonged and where she was headed next. Her peacefulness brought peace to all our family, as God gently ushered us all through the valley of the shadow of death.

If you are a caregiver, or know one, use Psalm 23 as a devotional and apply its richness and beauty to your personal situation. As I urge readers of my book, try writing your own reflections about each verse of Psalm 23. Personalize it, and discover the amazing depth of grace God has provided for us in this one short but powerful piece of scripture.

You can visit me on my blog at www.yearsfullofgrace.com, and—oh yes—you’re invited to buy my book, Aging Gracefully with the 23rd Psalm. It will be released by Anaiah Press on February 17, 2015 at www.anaiahpress.com.

About the book:

Aging Gracefully coverCan we talk about getting older? With another Baby Boomer turning 60 every 7.5 seconds, the “age wave” has captured the attention of such diverse fields as financial planning, cosmetics, medicine, and—religion. How does aging affect our spirituality? Does it deepen our relationship with God, or have decades of life’s roller coaster rides left us “spiritually challenged?”  Life after 50 can be particularly challenging for women because of the personal, social, and physical changes that naturally occur as we age. A rich spiritual life can help 50+ women gain perspective about their aging process and seek God’s guidance as they encounter the changes, challenges, and opportunities of later life.

Aging Gracefully with the 23rd Psalm applies some of the best-loved verses in scripture to a reflective study of ways women can grow in grace as they grow in years. The book format provides reflections on themes of aging found in each verse of Psalm 23, such as facing forks in the road; making fresh starts; resolving past conflicts; coping with social, personal, and physical changes; navigating through emotional transitions; processing loss and grief; and end-of-life planning. Illustrations of each theme follow, using biblical examples, vignettes from the author’s personal aging journey, a Takeaway Message from each psalm verse, suggestions for group discussion topics, and a journaling exercise to help the reader write a “Prayer Memo” to the Good Shepherd of the 23rd Psalm.

About the author:

???????????????????????????????Sharon is a class of ’69 Baby Boomer, a native of Pennsylvania, and now resident of Georgia.  The daughter of church musicians, she first worked as a music teacher and then turned her interests to writing about and working with older adults.A recently retired gerontology professor, Sharon now writes inspirational books and articles for 50+ women.

Find Sharon on her website and on Twitter.

 

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Visit, Comment, and Win a Copy of A Long and Winding Road

KathyPoolerThis last stop on the blog tour is a special one. Today we’ve visiting with Kathleen Pooler at Memoir Writer’s Journey. On Tuesday I highlighted her lovely review of A Long and Winding Road, and today she is featuring my guest post titled “Five Principles I Learned in Writing My Memoir.” If you visit her site and leave a comment, you will be entered in a drawing to win an ecopy of my book. CLICK HERE

A special thank you to all the wonderful bloggers who made my blog tour a success. I will post their names in a later post, but if you’d like to see them now, CLICK HERE.

If you have read A Long and Winding Road, please consider posting your own review on Amazon, Goodreads or any of the other distributors that allow feedback.

Blessings,

Linda

A LONG AND WINDING ROAD: A Caregiver’s Tale of Life, Love, and Chaos

Available now at:

B&N // Kobo // iTunes // Amazon // Smashwords // Google Play

 

Contest: Win a Long and Winding Road Poster or Notebook

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There are still a few days left to enter my blog tour drawing. You can win an autographed poster of the cover of A Long and Winding Road: A Caregiver’s Tale of Life, Love, and Chaos, or a spiral notebook with the same graphic. I tried to put the entry form in this post, but it won’t work on Word Press, so to enter the drawing, CLICK HERE. NOTE: If you don’t understand the significance of the notebook, watch the author video below.

 

Blessings,

Linda

A LONG AND WINDING ROAD: A Caregiver’s Tale of Life, Love, and Chaos

Available now at:

B&N // Kobo // iTunes // Amazon // Smashwords // Google Play

About the BookSometimes reality really bites. Alzheimer’s has wrapped Mom’s brain into knots, vascular dementia has attacked Dad, and, instead of carefree retirees, we have become caregivers. Regardless, dreams die hard, and we somehow stumbled into the purchase of a forty-foot motor home. That’s when all four of us set out on this seven-week trek across sixteen U.S. states. Now, Dad stopped-up the toilet again, Mom wet her last pair of clean jeans, and David just announced that he was hungry. My head is beginning to pound, and I know this isn’t going to be the easygoing retirement we’d imagined for ourselves.

Linda Brendle takes you on a roller-coaster ride of emotional and spiritual challenges that many families are facing right now. Co-dependency, mental breakdowns, and finding love after divorce are just a few of the issues weaved into this journey of caregiving. Whether you’re looking for an inspirational story to help teach you how to “let go and let God,” considering becoming the caregiver for one of your own parents, or are just looking for an entertaining travel book, this story is sure to strike a tender nerve.

 

Blog Tour Stop #9 – Spotlight of A Long and Winding Road

Enter-the-Contest-to-WINToday we’re stopping by the website of another Anaiah Press author, Angela Schroeder. Angela has posted a spotlight that tells a little bit about my upcoming memoir, A Long and Winding Road: A Caregiver’s Tale of Life, Love, and Chaos. She is also giving her visitors a chance to win an autographed poster of my book cover or a small spiral notebook. Watch my author video of you don’t know the significance of the notebook.

Tomorrow will be a free day–one of those days on tour when you can go shopping, relax in the sun by the pool, or revisit any earlier stops you might have missed.

June 17 –  Mormon Mommy Writers – Review

June 18 – The View from a Blank Word Document – Spotlight and Contest

June 19 – Princess of the Light – Interview and Review

June 20 – Confessions of an Ex-Ballerina – Spotlight

June 21 – Pam Thorson – Guest Post – “Caregivers and Heroes”

June 23 – Being Sam – Review

June 24 – Adventures in the Ballpark – Interview

June 25 – Keely Brooke Keith – Guest Post – “Street Teams for Caregivers”

June 25 – Donna L Martin’s ON THE WRITE TRACK – Review

June 26 – Angela Schroeder, Author – Spotlight

Saturday, we’ll visit with Dr. Sharon V. King at Years Full of Grace for an author interview. Among other things, we’ll talk about how Alzheimer’s Disease has affected my spiritual life.

Pre-Order Links: B&N | Kobo | iTunes

Release Date: July 1, 2014

Blessings,

Linda

A Long and Winding RoadAbout the BookSometimes reality really bites. Alzheimer’s has wrapped Mom’s brain into knots, vascular dementia has attacked Dad, and, instead of carefree retirees, we have become caregivers. Regardless, dreams die hard, and we somehow stumbled into the purchase of a forty-foot motor home. That’s when all four of us set out on this seven-week trek across sixteen U.S. states. Now, Dad stopped-up the toilet again, Mom wet her last pair of clean jeans, and David just announced that he was hungry. My head is beginning to pound, and I know this isn’t going to be the easygoing retirement we’d imagined for ourselves.

Linda Brendle takes you on a roller-coaster ride of emotional and spiritual challenges that many families are facing right now. Co-dependency, mental breakdowns, and finding love after divorce are just a few of the issues weaved into this journey of caregiving. Whether you’re looking for an inspirational story to help teach you how to “let go and let God,” considering becoming the caregiver for one of your own parents, or are just looking for an entertaining travel book, this story is sure to strike a tender nerve.

Win Stuff on Blog Tour Stop #2 – A Long and Winding Road by Linda Brendle

bus-stop-signOur stop today is The View From a Blank Word Document where publicist, Jessica Harvey, has spotlighted my memoir, A Long and Winding Road: A Caregiver’s Tale of Life, Love, and Chaos. To see the post, CLICK HERE.  Be sure to scroll all the way to the bottom of the post where you can sign up to win a signed poster or a notebook. If you don’t understand the significance of the notebook, check out my author video HERE. 

While you’re on Jessica’s site, take a look around and get to know her a Enter-the-Contest-to-WINlittle better before you get back on the bus. Tomorrow we’ll visit Princess of the Light where Mrs N will post a review. I will also answer some of her serious and non-so-serious questions while she passes around homemade cookies.

To see the complete itinerary for the tour, CLICK HERE.

Pre-Order Links: B&N | Kobo | iTunes

Blessings,A Long and Winding Road

Linda

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